Mama Work It Podcast

How to Stop Comparing Your Motherhood Journey

Marisa Lonic Season 6 Episode 209

Do you suffer from Comparisonitis?

In this powerful episode of the Mama Work It podcast, we dive into one of the sneakiest sources of stress and self-doubt for moms: comparison. From social media highlight reels to milestone pressure, it’s easy to feel like you’re “behind” or “not enough.”

But Mama — your journey is allowed to look different.

In today’s conversation, we unpack:

  • Why comparison is such a natural part of motherhood
  • How social media amplifies insecurity (and how to take back control)
  • What it means to honor the season you’re in
  • Mindset and practical tools to shift out of comparison mode
  • How your relationship with comparison impacts your kids
  • A grounding, guided reframe to help you reconnect to your own path

This episode is your reminder that growth has no timeline — and you can release the pressure to compete with anyone else’s life but your own.

Key Takeaways:

  • Comparison isn’t a character flaw — it’s a habit you can break.
  • Curate your inputs: protect your mental health on social media.
  • Honor your season — you are not meant to grow at the same pace as everyone else.
  • Use tools like:
     
    • “That’s for her, this is for me.” 
    • Shifting from comparison to curiosity. 
    • Celebrating small victories daily.
    • Your kids learn confidence from watching you break comparison cycles.

Links & Resources Mentioned:

  • Follow on Instagram: www.instagram.com/letmamaworkit 
  • Subscribe to the Mama Work It newsletter: www.mamaworkit.com 
  • Check out past episodes on time management, mindset, and mom life

https://mamaworkitpodcast.buzzsprout.com/1624639/episodes/12204754-how-to-momage-your-time

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-get-organized-each-week/id1549805160?i=1000700878029 

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/time-management-for-the-overwhelmed-mom/id1549805160?i=1000646221716 

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 ✨ Website: www.MamaWorkIt.com
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